10 Types of Douchebags Chicks Always Fall For and Why (Plus Their Female Equivalents… Tuesday, May 8 2012 

I got this from one of my guy friends, read and learn. Women, you are so much better than being with a complete Douchebag.

Women annoy me with their “abstinence is the best protection” when it comes to dating douchebags. Women can keep from dating douchebags no better than Bro’s can keep from taking home a drunk slut from the bar at 3a.m. It’s in your DNA. You can’t help it. We each get our social value from our ability to have done these or our readily available access to doing them, dating for women and casual sex for men.

Instead of trying to convince anyone not to be with these people I decided it was in all of our best interests to learn how to identify the male and female equivalents of this list by College Candy.

Through exhaustive research from being each one of these Bros and slamming each one of these women I have finally taken Stefanie Williams from “Chasing the Jersey” approach to dating. Know what you’re getting into, enjoy the ride and try to get out as unscathed as possible.

1. The Juicehead – Why you love him: “Look at him there, chest bulging out with not an ounce of fat on that body. I bet he could put me in positions no other man could.”

Reality: You’re going to be so sore after the workout he demands you do both in and out of the bedroom that you’re going to give up after a month of not eating chocolate and waking up for 5a.m. Crossfit. The fact remains that outside of simple eye candy this guy has nothing to offer anyone, even if he does have his own tv show.

Female Equivalent: Fake Breasts girl – Why we love her: “Look at her there, chest bulging out with not an ounce of fat on her. I bet she could do things to my dick that would make Sasha Grey blush.”

Reality: You’re going to be so broke after a month of trying to impress her that you’ll finally understand that “juice wasn’t worth the squeeze” even though you’ll still brag to your friends about how you totally got to third base with her… even though you didn’t. This girl invested $5000 of her own money you’ll be paying on for the rest of your life. That’s real business math.

2. The Boaster – Why you love him: This guy has the list of qualifications every mother looks for in her daughter’s suitor. He’s rich, successful, accomplished and willing to pay for your life of Xanax and daiquiri’s by his pool. Except he’s not, at least not with you because any woman worth her salt knows that his sh*t gets old as soon as he demands a pre-nup.

Reality: This guy might have all the bullet points you can spell out to your friends and family, that is until they meet him and realize what a failure you’ve become at meeting Mr. Right.

Female Equivalent: I’m just one of the guys-girl – Yes, she knows who the last person to own the rushing title before Barry Sanders and Emmitt Smith is (big ups to the Nigerian Nightmare), yes she agrees that Tim Duncan is the greatest power forward of all-time, yes she bought you Spurs playoff tickets and paid for the flight as a birthday present in 2009, and yes you had to cart her ass along with you for all of it.

Reality: This girl might be cool for a while, but once your bro’s realize she doesn’t have a single female friend then the clock starts ticking on her game night attendance. All her friends are guys for two reasons: 1) B*tches hate her & 2) Because all her guy ‘friends’ are still trying to bang her.

3. The Musician – Why you love him: One of my best friends is a musician and that dude traps more fur than Daniel Boone. Other than the fact that his music can melt the panties off J. Edgar Hoover I think this is simply because his music is emotionally apprised, can command a room full of people and looks good doing it.

Reality: I’m not going to ruin the mystery of these people so just check him out: facebook.com/chrisnizzle. His music is responsible for more pregnant women than a black man at a Jenny Craig convention!

Female Equivalent: The Stripper – Why we love her: This girl is full of hopes, dreams and excuses why those dreams never came true. Sure, you’re just stripping your way through college now but once that lucrative boob-job jettison’s you right to the top of the pole you’ll be turning tricks in the champagne room for Pac-Man Jones in no time. We men honestly believe while you’re up on stage and grace us with a quick glance that you have just chosen us for the night or the rest of our lives.

Reality: I’m am going to ruin the fallacy of this one: stripper’s are all insanely crazy whore’s. Lorena Bobbitt couldn’t hold a candle to the sh*t these women are capable of doing.

4. The Fronter – Why you love him: Much like The Boaster, this guy gets off on his own accomplishments even though none of them are really even his to own. His parents have dropped mad loot on this guy’s ability to shag women in their Escalade, House in the Hampton’s and even the South of France.

Reality: Even if he made it on his own that Caddy is a lease, that house is a time share and he had to check his credit card balance before charging that flight to a warmer climate. You’ll stick with this guy until the money runs out then think of another excuse for leaving him than being a money-grubbing whore.

Female Equivalent: Daddy’s Little Girl – Why we love her: This girl doesn’t want your money and isn’t impressed by what you drive, where you work or what your first date is like. All of the hard work is done for us by her father’s monthly expense account to his baby girl. Give this dalliance attention until you have to foot a bill in which she will be wondering why you aren’t as successful as her father and won’t be her man-slave for her cash.

Reality: The clock is ticking on this disillusioned little fawn so throw a couple quick ones in her, get a new watch and set of tires then best be on your way.

5. The Show-off – Why you love him: This one must trigger some cavewoman logic where Ug slings down a sabretooth tiger, beats his chest then drags you back to his cave. You love him because he will be your puppet for as long as you give him attention.

Reality: You probably won’t sleep with this guy because he won’t make that transition back to nice guy by the end of the night. One bad hook-up with this dude and you won’t hear the end of it for the rest of your life.

Female Equivalent: Sorority Girl – Why we love her: As soon as you hear the word “sorority” you imagine all the dirty things this girl will do for you and how perfect your union will become because “ring by spring or your money back” is the perfect assault on a single soror-stitute.

Reality: She only wants you as arm candy to make her lacrosse ex-boyfriend and slutty “little sister” that slept with him jealous. She sucks, my man, and you’re not the only one she’s swallowing.

6. Mr. God’s Gift To Women – Why you love him: In the split second we meet someone we all have a hard time deciphering arrogance from confidence. This guy thinks the world of himself for the same reason chubby girls think one night stands might actually like her: because he hasn’t learned his lesson yet.

Reality: Unless you plan an elaborate burn on this guy’s ego he will never learn his lesson. Either way, even if you do break this guy he’s not yours to keep.

Female Equivalent: The Hard 7 – Why we love her: These girls have the same problem as The Regulator, they’ve hung out with 9’s & 10’s for so long they start to believe they are one. They then develop a social Napolean Complex and become the yapping Chihuahua of the group demanding everyone’s attention.

Reality: Beware, because these women are the epitome of my motto “The only thing women want is money and attention.” Give them neither and you’ll have her wrapped up in the pretzel position in the upstairs Houston St. Bar & Patio in Ft. Worth, Texas in no time.

7. The User – Why you love him: Because you have daddy issues.

Reality: Unless you get counseling, the only guys that will be willing to date you are the ones that know what you’re worth and don’t mind charging you for it.

Female Equivalent: Daddy-Issue’s Girl – Why we love her: DIG’s require so little initial investment that they feign over the slightest bit of attention.

Reality: You had better know a good therapist unless, like Hank Moody, you want that prized collection of 1st Edition’s burned at the stake and you eventually drugged when your ex- takes you back. Seriously, Hank Moody needs to get his sh*t together.

8. Super Stoner – Why you love him: This guy is so agreeable that after dating the next guy on this list, being able to make up your own mind and never having to debate movie night, date night or girls night seems like a God send.

Reality: This guy doesn’t argue over date night because he’s not paying for it anyways. Plus, he’s just happy to have his munchies cured.

Female Equivalent: The Hippie – Why we love her: Hippie’s are so easy to get into bed, mainly because they haven’t slept in an actual bed since the last guy that offered her one.

Reality: These girls smell like motor oil, believe all things can be settled over a blunt and are going to steal your sh*t the first time you leave her alone in your house… just like with Hank Moody (seriously Bro, you gotta see Californication on Showtime). If you run Showtime you should definitely sponsor me.

9. The Great Debater – Why you love him: This guy seems intelligent only because he has a lot to say about topics you know nothing about.

Reality: Catch him in the act of conversation with one of your friends and see him flip-flop quicker than John Kerry in Michigan.

Female Equivalent: The Empowered Woman a.k.a. The Feminist – Why we love her: We don’t. You lesbians and super feminists aren’t feminine at all unless you’re one of my lesbian friends, then you guys rock! Seriously, lesbians make the best wingmen.

Reality: You’re going to have to sit through a lifetime of her spewing why men suck when all you want to do is fill that mouth with a good load of semen from the blow-jibber she will never give you.

10. The Player – Why you love him: This silver tongued snake was able to fly under your radar without tripping nary a one of your b*tch-traps or kick off your whore logic mentality. Everything he said and did was so smooth and agreeable that you fell right into his hands, and later his bed, without even realizing you were a pawn in his game until 15 minutes into your walk of shame.

Reality: Unless you either expect casual sex or are over the age of 30 you are going to have a few run-ins with this guy. Learn your lesson and move on.

Female Equivalent: The Bartender – Why we love her: This sultry vixen was so agreeable with you about planes being able to practically land themselves and how Lego’s will one day revolutionize the way we develop third world countries into competitive economic centralities that you left Jenn a $60 tip on a $19 tab which included your phone number on the receipt.

Reality: The sad thing is you will do it again next weekend because you still believe you have a chance (you do have a chance, you do). I’ve slept with my fair share of bartenders and it’s actually quite easy to pull this one off. Just be all of the guys on this list.

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Dude’s List: 11 Lies Women Tell Men Friday, Sep 30 2011 

So, I found this website and I kinda like this guy! Ladies, here is a list of 11 Lies Women Tell Men. I have to be honest I may have said one or two of these. I mean sometimes just like women, men can’t handle the truth, just saying…

Dude’s List: 11 Lies Women Tell Men

By The Dude •

Alright, this one’s going to piss off some, make others chuckle, and probably piss off some more. But bottom line, no one’s 100% honest all of the time and there’s no question we boys have made an omission or two with you…but then you most certainly have with us, too! Here’s a Dude’s List dose of the tall tales we’ve been told by you ladies. Take a look in the mirror…

“You’re the biggest I’ve ever had”
I don’t blame any woman for ever saying this to a man because we beg you to tell us this lie. We need this lie. We poke and prod until you tell us we’re big enough. Call it an emotional hand job. And it’s appreciated. And hopefully he’ll return the favor (with whatever the equivalent is. What is the female equivalent?)

“It was…great, really.”
Again, we’re asking for it. We’re not all sexual dynamos. Or competent. Some of us suck in the sack. Maybe it’s a lack of chemistry or we came too soon, but sometimes we screw up the screwing. And we generally know it. I mean, we have an instinct that we didn’t do it…right (there are some obvious signs and some we choose to be oblivious of). I mean, what are you going to tell us when we’re still naked and sweating? Most polite answer, really. And it’s appreciated. Of course, sometimes this lie is followed by: “I’ve got to go. I’ll call you.”

“I’ll call you.”
We’re not the only ones who use it! Way better than an outright rejection, right? Let them down gently? Tsk, tsk, tsk. We all should practice the Golden Rule a bit more. Of course, this isn’t the only way to blow a guy off…or cover something up.

“I’ve got a friend coming in this weekend.”
You’re cheating on him or just seeing another guy. Or just want to avoid him entirely. I’ve gotten this one. I think every guy I know’s gotten this one and every woman I know has used some form of it. Believe it or not, we’d rather just get the rejection upfront.

“I never drink this much.”
Usually said while drunk. But come on, no one wants to admit they’re an alcoholic the first time they meet someone. That’s not sexy. Duh.

“I’m pregnant.”
I know someone this happened to. She told someone she was pregnant. He found out. Then when he confronted her, she revealed she wasn’t. It’s been used, therefore it is valid on this list

“I’ve never done this before.”
Your pants are on fire.

“I’ve only had sex with, like, 2 guys. Swears.”
In the beginning, we all tend to do some spacey-wacey maneuvering when it comes to the list. There’s the joke that men make their numbers bigger and women make theirs smaller. Of course, if it’s true then is it still a joke?

“I like Chuck and the Wu Tang Clan, too!”
No you don’t. You don’t like anything we do and you pretend that you do. We give the same line to you about other things. I mean, we have to get along somehow, right? But just to warn you, when we find out the truth, that you hate everything we love, it only stirs the awkward sauce.

“Everything’s fine.”
When everything’s fine, no one actually needs to say it.

“I’m a terrible liar.”
No, we just want to believe you so badly it doesn’t matter how good of a liar you are. Especially when it comes to the sex stuff.

There you have it, ladies. 11 lies that all of you combined might have used at some point. Again, we certainly ask you to tell some of them to us. Others…So my big question to you is: how many have you used? It’s okay, I won’t tell. Oh! Another question, which ones have you told that I didn’t list? Come on, don’t hog all the fun.

We’re gonna need a longer list,

The Dude

8 Things Guys Notice About You Instantly Monday, Sep 19 2011 

1. How Thick Your Hair Is
This is all about evolution. Since caveman days, dudes have been drawn to lush locks, which signal that a woman is healthy (translation: shaggable).

2. If Your Smile Is Genuine
Sometimes your eyes crinkle a bit when you grin. Most men are good at distinguishing the vibe of this kind of smile, which says you’re relaxed and fun.

3. The Size of Your Group
You don’t want a big bunch (it’ll be hard for him to approach) or just one friend (he’ll figure you wouldn’t desert her to talk to him). The perfect crew size? Three. Your two buds can keep each other company when you slip away.

4. The Pitch of Your Voice
Studies show that men are drawn to voices in a slightly higher register (think Kristin Bell’s), probably because — yep, evolution — they’re reliable signs of youth and reproductive health.

5. Your Hip-to-Waist Ratio
Yet again, blame eons of human history. Men instinctually look for baby mamas. If your waist is noticeably smaller than your hips, it signifies fertility — a huge point in your favor. A wide belt will emphasize that hourglass shape.

6. Your Glowiness
Guys associate a radiant complexion with good mental health. That’s because stress and anxiety usually cause breakouts and dull skin. So those lotions and bronzers you sweep over your cheeks? Totally worth it.

7. What’s Fake About You
Not personality-fake, but artificial-accoutrement- fake: lashes, hair extensions, etc. To guys, these things shout high-maintenance! Not good.

8. Your Eyes
People focus on eyes more than they do on any other body part. And dramatic eye makeup will have him zeroing in on your peepers even more.

Sources: Daniel Amen, MD, author of The Brain and Love; David Feinberg, PhD, Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychology, Neuroscience, and Behavior at McMaster University; Helen Fisher, PhD, Professor of Anthropology at Rutgers University and author of Why Her? Why Him?; Lisa Shield, dating coach in Los Angeles

3 Questions To Ask A Guy On A Date (And 3 Questions To Avoid) Monday, Aug 8 2011 

Interesting, so girls next time you have a date try these to use these questions in your conversation with your guy and some to avoid! Good luck…

3 Questions To Ask A Guy On A Date (And 3 Questions To Avoid)
by Chiara Atik

Our friends at Glamour very astutely pointed out recently that some of the questions the female contestants ask on The Bachelor are not particularly condusive to male conversation. (“When was the last time you cried?” was particularly hard to watch.)

Here are three of Glamour’s suggestions for less awkward conversation topics, as well as three more questions we think you should avoid at all costs…

Go Ahead And Grill Them!
From Glamour:

1) “If you were to go on a game show and win a trip for two anywhere in the world, where would we be going?”
This question is great, because the answer will tell you a lot about the guy. Will he say something exotic, like Borneo? Then obviously he’s adventurous, and relatively low-maintenance. Does he pick an English-speaking country? This might mean he likes to be in control, and hates being at a disadvantage when it comes to language. Does he want to go to a city? A beach? The wilderness? (Note: If he says something like an ashram or a quiet retreat, he might not be looking for a serious relationship just yet…)

2.)”If you ran into the President in the elevator what would you say to him?”
He’ll either say something non-committal, try to make a joke, OR get really impassioned and political — whichever way he responds, you’ll definitely learn something about the guy’s personality.

3.)”If you could have any super power—and you can’t say flying—what would it be?”
How cool is your guy? Is he “I’d be invisible” cool? Or is he “Zach Morris Time Out” cool, which is obviously way, way, cooler?

But never ever ask…
1. “So what do you look for in a girlfriend/what kind of girls do you usually date?”
No, no. Do not ask this. What if he lists qualities which you don’t have? That’s awkward. What if he lists qualities you DO have? That’s also awkward!

2. “So are you really _____, or what?”
Basically, any adjective you can fill the blank with is bad. “Smart” after hearing he’s gone to an Ivy League College. “Rich” if you hear he lives in a certain neighborhood, or likes a certain restaurant. “Jersey” if he says he grew up in Jersey. Any generalization that you can make from spending an hour with someone is usually not one the other person is interested in hearing. It’s embarrassing, or offensive, and people usually won’t know how to respond. Move on!

3. And on later dates, avoid fishing questions.
Guys (and girls!) are attracted to confidence, and questions that fish for compliments are usually far more transparent than the asker thinks — anything along the lines of “What do you like about me?”, “Do you think she’s hot? Hotter than I am?” or “If I were in a horrible disfiguring accident, would you still date me?” Really, any “test” of a guy’s devotion makes him feel annoyed and trapped. Take a deep breath. Remember he’s out with you because he likes you. And relax.