Hello world, so with the messed up back, I’ve had a lot of down time for reading, well all the magazines. But this article was interesting, because I was thinking to myself, was Glamour using sarcasm or really ok with the boyfriend facebooking these chicks. Or they were manipulating the readers which are mostly all women to thinking no worries it’s cool for your man to Facebook the different type of women listed here. I’m not dissing anyone but, the majority of women I know would be Facebook stalking all these types of girl and their guy,because by majority of women are insecure at one point (I am guilty of a little insecurity at times, I mean who doesn’t) in a relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a jealous person, ask anyone who knows me. After my divorce, I sort of went in a bizarre 360•, I’m not big on PDA, not a fan spooning or cuddling (especially after sex), and not jealous of other women my guy may talked to but there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed. Maybe I’m wrong but it’s cool to have friends of opposite the sex, but it’s when the friendship turns into constant texting on hanging that I would have a problem. Getting back in track, here is the article, what do you think?

6 Girls It’s Totally Cool for Your Boyfriend to Be Facebook Friends With

Don’t freak out if any of these girls are on there!

EX-GIRLFRIENDS As long as the relationship didn’t end with a restraining order, I think it’s good for your guy to be “Friends” with his exes. If he de-friended ’em, how would they know how happy he is with his hot new girlfriend? And that includes …

THE LAST GIRL HE DATED It may sting a little to see a super-recent ex on the list, but the above applies—“Keep your ‘enemies’ close!”—plus, if he de-friended her and she noticed, then it seems like 1) he cares too much to see her move on with her life or 2) his new girlfriend’s controlling his Friends list. The exception: If she’s always leaving super-flirty messages on his wall, I might ask my guy to “hide” her.

CO-WORKERS Assuming your guy doesn’t have any strange hobbies his officemates shouldn’t be privy to (competitive pudding wrestling?) it’s totally fine if he’s Friends with the people in the surrounding cubicles. I mean, you wouldn’t be pissed if a dude co-worker was on his list, right?

RANDOM GIRLS IN BIKINIS If there’s a bikini-clad JWoww-looking girl up there—also identifiable by her uPPerCaseLoweRcAse name—don’t flip out. I bet you a million bucks that she blindly added him. Just like she blindly added the other 145,376 people on her Friends list. The chances of her singling him out for, um, anything are, like, 145,376 to 1.

HIS FRIENDS’ GIRLFRIENDS He’s taken. She’s taken. No problem here, right?

AND THE GIRLS THEY’RE FRIENDS WITH I suppose if you’re really an over-thinker, you could worry that these ladies are trying to steal your guy. But I hope you have better things to worry about.

Would you care if your guy were Facebook Friends with any of the girls above? Is there anyone you DON’T want to see on his Friends list?

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by Kim Fusaro
Glamour.com

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